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Sunday, December 2, 2012
How Not To Fall In Love
It’s your second meeting with her and you can’t help noticing each and every gesture that she makes. You end up exchanging number, and that’s the beginning to the apocalypse.
Whatever it may be, her looks, her fragrance or her company – boy, she has you hooked! She somehow manages to pull the right strings with you. So how do you prevent your heart from fluttering?
1) Don’t Think Love
Believe it or not, the more you think you are in love the more you will be. If stating scientific facts helps in your case, then it might help knowing that love is a cerebral game. Love isn’t an all-encompassing force. It isn’t a fire that must engulf you. Get out of that mindset ASAP!
2) Get A Life
You just got to know her this Saturday and it took you only the weekend to untangle your feelings. You feel new! You feel love! C’mon, get real. If that is how it is, it’s just not love. Instead, try and focus on other activities – sports, hobbies or catching up with buddies.
3) Get Sorted
Admit it! You’ve been hurt before and you just can’t get over it. So you try a fling and then another. Somehow, things get worse. So you tried love. But that’s the wrong antidote. It’s like using fire to extinguish flames. Do you really think it works like that?
4) Don’t! Just for the Sake of it
All your friends have a girl. Worse, the girls are hot. It makes you wonder what made your average looking pal win over a lass like her. So you feel like trying your game. Too bad you get love-struck!
5) Neglect Her
You just believed that and are nodding your head in agreement. Once again you are heading in the wrong direction. It’s rather surprising that ignoring a girl can make her actually think more about you. Try this trick if you want a girl to fall for you, instead!
It may sound a little cliché but no one needs to fall in love. It simply happens. Be it for good or bad, you come to know where everything is leading. It’s simply a choice. You pick your take – love or liberty?